Abe: What to say? "We're sorry for your loss" sounds so lame, but in fact, we are terribly sorry for your loss. Deb was far too young to be taken, and she will be missed by all those whose lives she touched. If there is anything that Joyce or I can do to help, please feel free to get in touch with us. Other than that, look after yourself and remember how lucky you were to know her and love her for as long as you did. Bob